Hey Luke. I chuckled at you telling your wife not to mind read. Yea, I did...fight me.
So, good thing you didn't really react to that tee shirt, yea? Not that it ties into mind reading at all...in any way..hee hee.. Im having fun here.
Seriously, though..the forgetfulness is all part of the crisis. It really does mess with their heads. My xh doesn't remember a lot of things from that time. Kinda scary, right?
I know you are concerned about what this marriage will ultimately look like. It will be whatever the two of you forge together...taking parts of the old and the new marriage and the old and new of the two of you. Wherever it lands, you will make a decision from a place of strength. Til then, keep on keepin on and always embrace the possibilities.