Shuley - thanks for the advice. I guess it didn't cross my mind because this was something I did when we were married and I would get the shove off because he was at work and couldn't take the 2 minute call. So didn't want to do more of the same? I will give it a shot on Wednesday (next night he doesn't have him) and see how it goes.
Cadet - I just get confused with "is it working?" "don't get your hopes up" but I can see this is what Michelle was talking about not missing the little things. Thanks
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15