Looking for advice and comfort

[PT33]

So I need some advice..My STBXW text me this morning saying she was coming to move some of her stuff today, here is the convo

W:Hi going to be there today moving stuff around 12:30 so u dont have to come home for the dogs, I will let them out and give them love. Do you want me to put them back in the side yards or in their kennels?
(yea love the dogs, you havent been here to help or take care of them)

Me: Could you wait until 1:30 so I can get my stuff out of that room

W: I guess, you knew I was coming today. I'm on a bit of a time crunch with the uhaul.

M: No you told me you were coming on tuesday

W: I will be there at 1:30. Im taking x, Y, Z so I have something. We do need to talk at some point about everything else.

M: ok I need to be there for separation of everything else

W: thats what I was referring too. I have taken care of you for almost 5 yrs, I would not screw you over now. So lets try to keep things friendly and not insuinate anything ok

M: Im not insinuating anything. I am keeping things cordial


It took everything in me not to respond to the taking care of me for 5 yrs. No, we took care of each other for 5 yrs! She wouldn't screw me over now??? What does she think she is doing??