My story - W was with OW

[Shuley]

I will post about the camping trip when I have some time to make sure everything that was significant about the R is communicated without too much narrative. It did seem to go well but I know back to reality will be hard.

One question. I am the one in charge of arranging the MC. Our therapist is my old MFT an so I've been the one taking care of this. Is this a violation of detaching? My W does want to go to these sessions, but I feel like my setting this up is too controlling. any thoughts?