have i been making mistaked too long. part 2

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Spew is nonsense that comes out of your W's mouth. It'll be hateful, hurtful and be twisted so that you're the bad guy and your marriage is a joke. It's a way for the WAS to justify their bad behaviour and shift the guilt on to you.

Being normal and acting confidant will make her angry as she has lost control of the manipulating she has been doing. As she gets angrier, she will spew to get you to argue back. It's one of the tricks they use to make sure they get you right where they want you.