have i been making mistaked too long. part 2

[tkdmme]

so I keep reading about this "spew" what is this? Is this what it sounds like? Cause if it is I think I may have came close to seeing it yesterday. As I have mentioned in the previous posts, I have been doing well for the past week in not talking and staying completely positive in front of her. Yesterday as we were driving she started to complain that she didn't know how much money she has to buy groceries. She has access to our account information so she knows exactly how much money we have.

I took over the responsibility of paying all the bills. We share an account. She previously had been taking care of that. Anyway during this situation it was brought up by her that she wanted me to handle this (paying the bills) and now she seems upset that I have been quite good at it.

Anyway, I calmly stated that she has full access to the account and that at any time she wants she can view it. She also has access to a spread sheet that I keep for organizing and paying the bills. She does not have to talk to me at all to find out our financial situation.

Any thoughts?