When we do meet up to deliver or pick up kids, it is terrible. I can't really look at her in the eye. I try to look right in between her eyes so it's not really eye contact. The level of deception, collaboration and planning to eliminate me, take the kids from me, all of it, is just too much.
My IC tells me I have been emotionally abused for years and I have to face that reality.
I hadn't realized the years of emotional abuse. Do you talk about it anywhere that I can catch up on it? It does make a difference in how we give you advice.
Also, remind me if you've consulted a L on strategy to make sure she can't take the kids from you?
Finally, do you see any evidence that your W has been addressing her issues in therapy or changed her ways?
Hang in there.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15