Lost, alone, and in pain

[HurtHus]

Thanks EP! I wouldn't be making any progress if it weren't for this board and my DB coach. Honestly I think if I had been reading the DB and DR books a year ago and posting here and using my DB coach the A never would have happened.

We talked about how we can't change the past, but just acknowledging the mistakes and making changes is a huge step. She even said especially since she can see how those changes are helping make our family more stable.

We haven't had any true R talks. Last night was closest we have had. I just started by asking her if I had done anything in the last week that she was bothered by and she even sort of said she understood why I had acted that way. I asked her to please make sure in the future that she let me know when I ask too many questions gently but firmly.

W has even begun talking about future vacations and there things we can do to improve our house.