Heavy - I feel you. My H thinks we can be best friends even when the divorce is final. I let him know that I would be "friendly" but "friends", most likely not. he hasn't treated me like a best friend in a long time so why would he start now. They want to cake eat. I feel that they want us to be their best friend but not the other way around. It eases his guilt of destroying everything because he is still my "friend".
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15