Wife keeps insisting that divorce does not have to be this way.
She keeps insisting that we be best friends and this will be the best for our kids. The pressure for this scenario is relentless.
My heart would not be in it. I can't do it. She makes me feel that I am hurting the kids by not being her friend. This all feels so junior high.
I really am at a point where I think I should stop the wait game and just turn the tables and file myself to end this. She has filed and nothing has happened - for almost a year now. I think she is just trying to wear me down and frankly I think it is working. I am just so tired of all of this.
