Remember its not over till its over. I keep reminding myself of this. Our sitch has created a great deal of turmoil within our extended family as well. My family is disgusted at how my W has been acting. My father was diagnosed with pancreatic caner 4 months ago. My W and father have always had a great relationship and she has not once called to see how he is doing.
Her family has been very supportive of me, but are not happy with the way I handled things in the beginning. I was very manipulative in trying to get my W to change her mind. This site and the DR book have me working in a way that they are proud of. I don't tell them about the book or the site but they notice a difference.
Hang in there. If nothing comes of my marriage this will still be a mind opening experience. I have become aware of my own issues and although im sad about the M im excited for my own future.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16