When my d went through I had to show who paid for the cars. Since I made all the payments ex kept the new car and the payments. I kept the car that was paid for. I am not sure why you are even discussing life insurance with her. You can get your own and put the kids as beneficiaries. At this time I wouldnt do anything without talking to your L. What the WAS think will happen never does. Mine was very shocked and angry at the outcome. She threatened to take my RC planes. But most of them were bought as presents and she couldnt. On the other hand she has a horse worth 25k which I could have asked for half. But didnt. Tough stuff my friend.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden