BEC, I would suggest that you discuss the moving back home and the car situation w/your lawyer. Generally, once the clock starts ticking on divorce actions, this is usually when things need to be taken care of in the way of negotiating on settlement issues.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
