Your question about how to start a new thread isn't stupid. You would start the thread just as you did this one when you came to the forum.

To start a new thread:

1. Go to the top of the forum and you will see a read button that says "New Topic" this button is to the left of the button "Forum Options".
2. Click on the red button "New Topic"
3. Give your new thread a name in the blank "Subject" line and begin to post in the blank box that has "Post" to the left of it.
4. You may want to post a link to your old thread in your new posting.
5. You may also want to post a link in your old thread to your new thread.

If you aren't sure how to link your threads, I'll be happy to provide the instructions for that as well:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post2588047

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