He went completely dark for a while from his WAW (I don't think they were married)
Also - do not send the letter! Keep it and write as much as you need to in order to help you but do not give it to her. Even if you say it's not a plea it sure sounds like one to her. If she wants to R she knows where to find you.
When she comes over to get her stuff have plans made. Be dressed up, smelling good, have plans so that you don't have to linger around
Thanks T0324, She won't see me , she won't come to the apartment if I'm home (has come back three times for her stuff this will be the last) she hasn't nor does she want to see me for the last 2+ months . I'll be at work , as she planned it that way .
On the letter it's been 3 months she doesn't know how I feel as we've had no contact , this is actually my goodbye if she never wants to R which is the way it's headed
Last edited by Aj8; 08/10/1504:05 AM.
Me:35 W:30 7 years together 11 months married No children W Left me-moved to her moms: June 2015 W filed for D: July 2015