One additional note: The part I find most excruciating (except feeling left behind, cheated and unheard) is eating up all the bullshit about how its all me, and how she can't see or fathom how her clinginess and insecurity have also helped get us to where we are now.
Yes, there are many aspects of myself I am not proud of that I find during this process, but in addition I can also see that she is completely missing any aspects of herself that contributed to where we are now, its just so difficult not to say anything.
Me: 29, wife: 29 Been together 6 years. Married June 13 (2years) Separation: 22/6/15 W stopped wearing wedding ring 30/6/15