hold on! - 11

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Yeah sandi - I figured you meant that.

I can attest that this is true - in-house separation has lots of problems and constant stress. I would say in my situation that it did not work and maybe there would be more of a chance if we had a physical separation early on - maybe.

I think the lack of ability to escape the situation and lovingly detach are the biggest challenges. It has turned me cold and resentful - I am trying to work through this.

I believe it is why I am at the point that I am - filing. and she is at the point she is at - cycling daily between viscous spew to ignoring the spew and nicing her way around matter.

I really appreciate you checking in.
Thanks