Beagley, it took me months before I can listen to music and even now, some songs, even the ones I haven't heard before can cause me pain. However, I hear Taylor Swift, shake it off to be quite 'boppy'. BTW tainted love did the same for me too, and currently Sam Smith, you are not the only one, cuts like a knife.
In respect to your first post, I was H's first love and the first person he slept with. Despite this, H is the WAS a d has filed for a D. I believed, that being his first will forge a very special and deep bond.
The worst thing is I hated Tainted Love anyway, it was simply the repetition that got me, I felt like screaming, "OK, I get it!" at the time. That Sam Smith song is a real cutter I'm with you there.
Thank you for the reassurance regarding the first love thing. My W believes it and when she was having her hair done a few days before she left, the stylist was talking about how she'd left her husband to be with her first love and it was great, which must have encouraged my W as she mentioned to me, with a it was destiny that the conversation came up attitude. What she didn't say was how long ago it all happened, from how she described it, it was probably quite recent and could have gone bang by now!
- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow - Consult your plan, not your feelings - If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?
