Ghost - when I think of the word DETACHMENT I initially pictures it as the spaceship from Apollo 13 detaching from the other ship. The physical letting go and letting the other ship orbit freely.

Unfortunately, it's really not like that. It isn't about the PHYSICAL act of release. It's more about the emotions. The physical stuff is easy. No contact, light breezy conversation, no touching, etc.

But picture your emotional relationship as a ball of two color spaghetti - it's not so easy to separate that bowl into two piles of the separate colors, right?