The only peace I have right now is knowing that one day, when my little boy and little girl are grown, I will be able to look them in the eyes and tell them I did all that I could to keep us together. Did I make mistakes? Yes. Were my efforts perfect? No. But I fought a good fight for noble reasons.
If you give up now, have you done all you could? I hope that now you will learn to work SMARTER instead of HARDER.
Originally Posted By: BEClem
But I do feel like I failed them because my efforts did not produce the intended results. I know we talk about how DBing is about us. But really we all come here with the same goal: to save our marriages and our families.
Yes, we all COME here to save our families. But we can't control our spouses. So no matter how much we try and how hard we fight, sometimes there's nothing that can be done. That doesn't make you or your efforts a failure.
Originally Posted By: BEClem
In that. I have failed. But I can always take solice in the fact that I didn't give up and did the best I could.
DBing is a LONG process and you're just getting started. Don't give up now - you're just about to get to the good stuff, I think.
