Hi TLEE, you're sounding much better my friend - pleased to read about work and the interior designer....good for you!

I would urge a little caution with the online dating. Many on this forum give it a try and many realise they are not ready. I think the saying - hurt people hurt people - is important here. So, my advice would be keep it light and fun. Keep the emphasis on making new friends and be honest and authentic about where you are at with things.

I think the advice from your IC is good. Detachment is partly about not experiencing such highs and lows linked to what our WAS is saying and doing. ..

Take care xx

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Me 48 H 46
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus