Hey 4! I was really pleased to read your post above. THAT is what being on the right path looks like! Interesting that you are starting to see patterns in your own life. With this awareness, you will be able to start managing things from your 'old' life that you want to change. And you can build a better 'new' life for yourself.

And the beauty of what you are doing now is - it doesn't really matter what your spouse is doing - your self-improvement will happen either way. And you will live a happier life either way.

The support groups sound like a great option, and may lead to new friendships too. As you say, good GAL and a way to get out of the house and do something for you....keep on going my friend - you're doing really well! xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus