Who was in the tunnel anyways?

[mleigh4]

Hey Cali. I have no advice, but see you are getting good stuff from others. I read your posts and really commend you for how you are handling things. The A, the condoms, the shirt....I really don't think I could handle it as well as you.

I think you are being a little hard on yourself. I believe your feelings of frustration, anger and doubt are absolutely normal and justified. I worry with some of your wife's reactions that she really still is not aware of just how much damage she has done. She seems to downplay a lot, which puts you in an even tougher position.

I relate to your questioning if returning to life with W is even what you want. Must be something in the air, I have had the same kind of week. Seems you guys are moving quickly in the R area, and there is still so much to work through. I just say, take it slow, do what feels right to you.

The way I see it, you have earned the right to take things at your pace, to call the shots and set the path. I am not feeling very MLC tolerant right now....she called the shots for 2 years and left a mess for you and S to deal with...take things as they come and do what feels right. I have no doubt you will handle each bump in an admirable way. You are a real catch Cali.