I really laughed about the best time to talk to her being "after I fed her". Not to generalize women, but my experience is their moods are more sensitive to being hungry or tired than men. I also learned to make sure that those to things were tended to or run away! wink Hate you had such a bad day. Hope spending time with your kids ended it on a hight note.

H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling