There's been new contact w/OW, and reciprocated. I don't know all the details or how much. I know his was "I miss you terribly" and it had a link to a music video of, ironically, our song. So it's been a rough day.
I thought we were approaching agreement of no contact and moving towards piecing but I've been a fool, as usual.
Starting to really question what I want to do.

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?