Can you explain your last post a little more unravel your emotional well being so stop feeling love towards her ?
There is tons of great info on the Detachment thread in the homework. I'd read all that again.
But I do NOT mean to stop feeling love toward her.
What I mean is you have to not let your sense of worth, your level of happiness, your wellbeing rely on HER. For example: if you make her dinner and she stops at the pub on the way home from somewhere, you need to learn to shrug it off. You can't expect reactions and feelings from her anymore to make you feel good. Likewise, you can't let her actions and reactions and emotions make you feel badly. Your goal is to stay as even keeled as possible.
That does NOT mean to give up on your M or to stop loving your W.
