Hi Flight, Thanks for reading my rant. I did make a lot of mistakes in the beginning but then I did try my best to follow the books. I kept journals on what was and was not working, when was the best times to talk to her, usually after I fed her. She just kept drifting away and every once in a while would give me hope. Whenever I said enough is enough she’d say, “Just when I was going to give you another chance.” I told her I was done in June and she said if I could make to September she’d give me another chance (again! Lol). One night away became two then three and now five, when I heard about OM from hairdresser that was enough disrespect for me.
I let her come back after two weeks as I knew she either missed us or she was looking for a fight. It was a fight so she could continue with her bad behavior and I bit the hook. I have to do a 180 on OM as she left today and I will not contact her, I will go dark and re-read the books. I’m hurting but glad I found out about OM, it makes it easier to GAL and move on, I hope. I think she didn’t like losing the control she had over me and that’s what made her mad not the moving of the clothes. On the way out the door she said, “That was your last chance!” (I wish I had a dollar for every time I hear that one) So you’re correct Flight, she had no choice but to leave me and be adulterous, what else could she do? Going to watch a comedy movie with my sons and salvage the day.
