Just over a month into the separation. Detaching, attempting GAL. Very tough. Two really great friends are shouldering a lot right now.

I don't initiate any contact, only respond to her emails. And they were mostly daily until this week when two days were missed only to get an email yesterday saying "I hope you have a good weekend" and then proceeded to tell me her plans.

This morning was bad, depression visited and overstayed its welcome. So entirely bummed out.

I think what hurts is just walking around the house and seeing us everywhere, in everything. She is in a corporate apartment with 1/4 of her clothes, computer and bike, and doesn't get to see that.


Me - Mid 40's
W - Mid 40's
Married 20
No kids
BD - 7/2015
ILYB...
Moved out 2 days later
Suspect EA