This makes sense, Py. I don't feel any guilt any more, just hurt. I feel that H reaction to me is because of his guilt and pride. I will reflect some more and feed back again :-)
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15