have i been making mistakes too long

[dwh15]

It's a very long road brother. I can tell how badly you are struggling. I totally understand and feel the same most of the time. Nobody around me gets it. My family and friends just keep saying to move on, it's over. Tell me I could never trust her again and it would never be the same between us. It's so easy to say those kinds of things, until you are in this position. Like you, I just want my W and family back.

I think that it does get easier with time, but still believe you are going to have a difficult time detaching with W living in the same house. Some guys can pull it off, but I'm not sure I could, and from your story, I would say it's going to be the same for you. Do your best to stay busy and plan activities w/o your W. You'll probably still think about her constantly for a while but will slowly start to adjust. Just keep moving forward one day at a time.