I decided to let the wife come back and spend the night after NC for 2.5 weeks. She went ballistic when she saw I moved her stuff in the basement. Told me if I didn’t put her stuff back she’d move back in, LOL. As I said I moved them because it was painful to look at her stuff around the house, especially the bedroom. She wanted to stay at her friend’s house and also stay at this one whenever she felt like it. Legally I guess I can’t stop her but I don’t understand why she’d want to. Dinner with S25 and S18 was tense and going downhill fast. She said she was going to leave early in the morning and started packing more stuff to take from the basement to her car. I gladly helped her. I thought she missed us and wanted to see us but now I think she had to be out of the place she was staying at last night. I had nothing to lose so I decided to confront her about OM, I told her I drove by the hairdresser’s house and saw the other guy’s car there. I didn’t do that the hairdresser told me but I didn’t want her to get in trouble. She said,” I’m not allowed to have friends?”