Thursday night I had impromptu drinks on a friend's patio. Last night went out to eat and then came home and read. The Codependency book does mirror much of what we learn in the DB process when it talks about the healing process. Detach, set boundries, and work on ourselves. I am up to the independent chapter.I have always been codependent I think, though a bit milder than my H. I think my H was actually more so up to BD and then we seemed to have switched roles. Any way, I feel like I am learning a bit from the book. The more I think about it, it many ways, my H seems to be DBing. He has certainly mastered detaching from me, but only to attach other things. Maybe that As are a key way for codependentthink to cope.
So how is my GAL and 2.0 work? Yesterday, I signed up for a color pencil art class for the fall. I think it is 6 classes, so really looking forward to that. Signed up to volunteer for a local arts non-profit, and will be applying for a city arts committee position. GAL for this weekend is primarily solo, which is fine. I am getting beautified today, daily walks, and maybe a run.
As far as my H. Not a peep. He arrived back from his week long biz trip yesterday, but never came home. Still a little bit upsetting, but not nearly as bad as before. I think I have maybe seen him a handful of days over the past 6 weeks already and I am gone M-F next week for work. His loss.
Off for my morning walk....maybe one more cup of joe first.
Last edited by BT13; 08/08/1501:48 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
