Thanks Elly - a virtual boogies makes me very happy! It was a big day. I know I have an anniversary in Sept, a wedding in December, and my antiversary in January before hitting the 1 Year mark, but nothing is going to slow me down.

By telling virtually everyone I know and writing about it on my blog it's made it much easier to stand with. I just don't drink or get high any more, I train my butt off in the gym, and have a life filled so amazement and wonder to take its place. Best decision I ever made.

Appreciate you stopping by as well As, I know that my W had to tell herself and me a lot of things for her to be ok with the decision to leave. I understand that it's a big one regardless of the true reasons. It wasn't easy for her either, nor do I think she married me with any other intention but for us to be together for life.

I got an interesting reply from her regarding my dog last night, but I've put it out of my life for the weekend so I can GAL, write, workout, and spend time outside without obsessing about it and crafting a reply. I'll post it on Monday and get everyone's thoughts on how to proceed.

The weekends are often tough for us DB'ers so my thoughts go out to everyone on the board.

PP


M 39 W 36
T5 M3
BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day
Served 9/15
D finalized 6/17