Hi Raliced, that's interesting. It sounds as though he may be making decisions that are a little more family focused, which is good for the kids. As you say there could be 'trouble in paradise' but I also get the 'ebbs and flows' - there could well be some off. on. off stuff going on.

Getting on with your own life whilst patiently observing sounds like a pretty good plan to me. Without reading back, what's the status re D (without reading back)...is anything progressing in that area at all?

Take care....you're doing really well xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus