Uturn, I was ALWAYS the cook in my home with my WW. I got off of work earlier than she did, so I took care of it. When I got the "ILYBINILWY" line followed with the "I want a divorce" line, I quit cooking for her. When she would get home, myself, the kids and I would all be done with dinner and all left overs (if there were leftovers, I planned my meals for 3) would be stowed in the fridge. It really hit her to walk into the house that smelled like one of her favorite dishes and then quickly realize that there wasn't enough for her or that she would have to microwave leftovers.
To me it was just showing her one of the things she was missing. Give that a shot too man.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016