I understand how confusing that kind of behavior is. My STBX does the same with me. When he did well in court he texted me to tell me. I was just telling my friend today that my STBX is too comfortable and familiar with me for someone that is supposed to be my ex. In some ways they are still trying to get their cake and eat it too. She is used to sharing with you and did so with no regard to how mixed those signals may be to you considering you are filing for D.
I am also keeping more distant. It is the only way to not get caught in the web of mixed signals. It is easier for me to not be close enough to get hurt. I have had enough of that and I'm sure you have too.
You are still going to have low days, it's part of the process. Just as long as your know that there are better days coming. Keep up the good work. Find time for some fun.
Cheers,
Karma
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
