Originally Posted By: 4mykid
huge blow of him saying they have been official for a few months yet struggling to understand why he still chose to sleep with me also?! So confused!
4, you've said this a few times now. Why did he sleep with you? Because he's a cheater! Do you not see that? He's been doing this for 13 years. He cheats on you, he cheats with you. Because you allow it. There's nothing confusing about that.

You are doing fine, 4, this is a difficult road you are on. You've been stuck in the same patterns for years. Now you are trying to change and it's hard. But keep it up, girl, and you will come out better on the other end. And you can teach your daughter a better way. Hang in there.



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