My W used to actually comment on how she knew the separation was a good thing because I was smiling and laughing more. I got sick of telling her that it had nothing to do with the separation and everything to do with waking up feeling whole.
Yes, my W would say that she feels so much less stressed. I kept wanting to say (& a couple times I did) I do too, what the hell has that got to do with it. Living with someone you are struggling with is stressful. That doesn't mean that it confirms your decision, that's just rationalization. STFU smoothies until they realize that it wasn't a good decision.
Just stopped by to say hang in there.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
