Ugh, I'm sorry about your sitch. (As you probably read) I was very much in the same place as you. I never thought I would be able to find a light at the end of the the tunnel. While I'm not sure if "normalcy" will ever be the same for at least the short term, I also see that I'm not defined by my marriage, which was a big step. I still hope that she can find what makes her happy and grows from this whole messy and sad situation. However, things for you will get better regardless of the outcome. You've found the right place on the inter web to be and this forum has been a godsend and a blessing for so many months. Be kind to yourself.
Also, looking back through my sitch, do you see where it turned for me? I think I know, but would be interested in seeing if I conveyed it on the boards.
Laatly, I never understood when people still had hope when the sitches seem to go the way of mine. However, living for the day; the future, regardless of whether she gets out of this or not doesn't seem nearly as scary.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
