Thanks for the updates, MCS, Your section about the general sadness resonates with me, although I might be a little less distant from it than you are. I think one factor is that my dating situation is different from yours. It sounds like you have found a partner, if not for life, at least enough to invest in a little at the moment. This sounds more like the place of a girlfriend, something that can partly fill the space occupied by your WW in the past.
I hope that you're also doing good at work. I seem to recall a time when it was difficult to keep your focus and productivity. as for WW, what can we do? It seems to me like the distance that you put between her and your emotions is healthy. Time will do the rest, hopefully.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.