Originally Posted By: Azzork
I still say don't send it. I believe you feel this is "going all in". You're pushing your last chips into the center in a take it or leave it, last ditch effort to convince her to change her mind. I'm guessing she won't. Then what? You've basically undone all the progress you made over the past few months.

But that's just my opinion.

In your mind, if she doesn't change her mind after this letter, are you assuming that it means you're done for good and it's time to move to the next girl?


Azzork , my reasoning for this letter is not as a final chance to get back together but for her to know where I stand so if she ever in the future has thoughts about possible R then she'll know where i stand. Also, if she doesn't ever want a R at least I got to say goodbye In a heartfelt way . I know it won't change her mind and it won't make it easier for me if she rejects it which she will but I never explained myself and this I feel is my last chance

Last edited by Aj8; 08/08/15 12:49 AM.

Me:35 W:30
7 years together
11 months married
No children
W Left me-moved to her moms: June 2015
W filed for D: July 2015