Summer of Growth and Acceptance - Part 2

[Painter]

If this was me, I would probably wait until I felt like we were having a good day and H seemed receptive, then I would say something about that I feel it is important that we both were very mindful of each other in this difficult situation, and avoid anything that could cause increased conflict or distrust, because regardless what happens with the two of us in the future, there are a lot of things we will have to work out, and it's important to keep open communication about any business items to not create an adversarial climate.

And then - VERY IMPORTANT - I would drop it and not say anything else. Regardless what H said. They hear it, even if they throw a fit, but if you just say, 'I understand' or 'Uh-huh', you won't escalate it.