You're getting good advice here Aj, from two guys that know their stuff.

Ask yourself this - are you writing the letter for her or for you? If it's for her, has she asked you for your thoughts on everything? If not, then it's for you.

Definitely write it. Post here if you're going to send it, and if not, just hold on to it for a bit. I've done the same and now how powerful it is to get all of those thoughts out of my head and onto paper. That being said, I'm very glad I didn't send them now.


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