So we had the "talk" with the kids about our separating. He tried to lie about having OW. I didn't think that was right. I'm tired of keeping his secrets and I felt it was better the kids knew from us the truth. Well H didn't agree and thinks they are not mature enough to handle it.
As it turns out, my kids are extremely angry and hurt. My daughter (21) says she no longer has a father and called him disgusting. My son (18) is more quiet about it, but is barely talking to his dad. My daughter found out my MIL is supporting the affair and has lashed out at her grandmother (swearing etc.)
My H says this proves the kids weren't mature enough to hand the news about OW. And it's ALL my fault. He says I only wanted to tell them so he didn't come out looking like the good guy. Maybe he's right but I couldn't stand the secrecy anymore. He said now we will have no relationship at all because of the way things went down.
