Well I just got the co-dependent no more book and workbook on my phone. I also spent some time printing out anger management info and worksheets. Self esteem worksheets. And some other co-dependent worksheets. I need to kick my butt in gear and get on with it all! I want to be better and that is going to take a lot of work! He no longer believes I can change so since I am motivated by challenge. I will take the challenge become a better person. I will also take on the challenge of becoming a better choice for a partner as it seems he has not completely given up if he says he will let me know if things for him change. I do not want to "win" him back I would rather he want to come back and work on himself and on us! So off to start reading!
