I've read your entire sitch..in my opinion the best thing you could do right now is move out with your daughter and have some time without him in your life..I'm no expert this is just my opinion..to me it sounds like you are being used by him for many things..didn't he offer to get a loan to help you move somewhere else? Sounds like he needs to man up and take care of his own bills,kids,etc. for a while and you go work on you and take care of yourself and your daughter..just my .02


Me-30 H/STBX-32
Daughters-10,7,18 months
M-9 years T-11 years
A few BD's since 2011
H left-March 16,2015
H came back-June 6,2015
Kicked husband out BC he was still seeing OW-June 26,2015