Falling Pianos: Wayward Wife & LRT (8)

[Ripken8]

Defacto, I'm in the same boat, but maybe a little further along. Keep doing what you're doing. Always for you. The progress you made is amazing. I told my stbx earlier this week "I'm happier when I don't interact with you and at times, wish I didn't have to. But, we have kids, so that won't be the case". She told me she missed talking with me at times, I told her I missed the person I used to talk with, but she's gone and not sure she's ever coming back. I also let her know I'm almost done with the grieiving process for my wife that died, not the person who's left behind I have no desire to get to know.

It's not turning ugly, but I'm also not caring about what she does or says anymore. It's pretty liberating and great for GAL and spending time with my sons.

I wish you the best. Who knows if your stbx reactions are a sign of progress or not. Either way, you have to do you and see if who she is, is someone you even want, when/if it ever comes to that.

But, the way I see it, nothing changes.