Yeah the mini-bombs have been there, like walking through a mine field and I have done pretty well getting over the triggers, ...I had put some stuff away in the closet and discovered a box of condoms .. 12 pack .. 8 left ... yeah .. more gut punches I have not mentioned this to W ...
Hi Caliguy, wow, you are doing great. I can't imagine finding things like the box of condoms (with several missing) and not checking myself into the looney bin.
Your story is a great reminder for those of us hoping for a new R with our walk away/wandering away spouses, that there is lots more work even if they might come back. Thank you for the example you set.
