The books give some good advice. Moving forward and having some self respect will help you heal. You cannot share what you learn with the MLC'er. They have to go through it and it can take them years.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.