I personally would take the kids if I could. I have not read up on your sitch so I'm not sure you are in a position to do that without the XW helping. I would tell the XW to find her own place. It is not you responsibility to take care of her anymore.
By the way, what does "court dismissed D" mean. Under what circumstances would the court do that.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
